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Balance

Hey Sharing Life fam! 

Legit, I think I need to find a cool intro for you all. I almost always struggle to find the words. But, vim dey!  

Today's post is me thinking out loud... you know... 

I have seen that in life, if I don't make a conscious decision to focus on the things that truly matter, I will live but not live at all. 

I must admit, and thank God I know, that for the longest time, I have been the girl who can easily put her plans and pursuits on the side burner while actively pursuing another person's vision.

I have noticed that if I do not properly and intentionally balance the various facets of my life, I will be a success on one side and not do so well on another side. 

Yes, God forbid, we rebuke it and all but the thing is, there is or are actions to be taken in order for these things not to happen. 

Trust me, a good number of people will hardly tell you to get a life or to find balance especially when your "imbalance" favours them. That, my friends, is the unfortunate truth. 

So, what am I saying? 

It has become apparent to me that I must come to terms with this: life is moving; so long as I keep growing, there are going to be responsibilities and things calling for my attention. Sadly, it isn't going to get any less busy. This means that the sooner I start prioritizing the things that serve purpose and help me respond to the call of God for me, regarding purpose, the better. 

Then again, I'm wondering: is this just me thinking out loud. But, I want to know: is it just me who is experiencing this or I'm not alone? Let me know... 




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